Thursday- November 27

Moments-One Direction

First off, let me say HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!! I love love love thanksgiving!!! So much food and family and fun! It is one of my favorite holidays. 

Now onto the reason for this blog. 

The song 'Moments' is an older One Direction song. It is one of my favorites when it comes to all of your songs. The lyrics are so smooth and full of meaning which is hard to do sometimes. Especially, when there is more than one singer involved. The refrain of the song is the best part of the song I think. The lyrics are "You know I'll be, Your life, Your voice, Your reason to be, My love, My heart, Is breathing for this, Moment, In time, I'll find the words to say, Before you leave me today". I think today was the best day for me to post about this song. This song does remind me of relationships but not only in the romantic sense. I also think of relationships with family. Family is really important. It is something that I am blessed to have not only by blood by also by friends. My best friend (Violet) is like family to me already. I am also convinced that she and I are related secretly. But my aunt and uncle and cousins are my family and I love them to death. Everyday you have a connection to family in some sense. My family is the reason I am here and doing what I love. I go to an amazing school, am majoring in something I really care about, and am alive. They are the reason I wake up in the morning because everyday they are there and everyday they give me a reason to live and wake up the next day. 

So what does this have to do with Thanksgiving? Well, maybe at first you don't see it, but listen to the song a few times and you will see it. This songs talks about the important people in life that give you reason to live while you give them reasons to love. So be thankful that you have these people in your life. Be thankful to have a reason to wake up in the mornings and a reason to just live in general. I have so many people that I am extremely thankful for in my life. All the moments that I have with them have made me who I am. Even the moments that are hard and painful. Every moment has given me to love and live. So be thankful not just on Thanksgiving, but everyday. Be thankful. 

Wednesday-November 18

I Knew You Were Trouble-Taylor Swift

One thing that really seriously bothers me is the fact that girls go to bad boys like every time no matter what happened the time before that. I understand the want for rebellion. It is the same as when people start to hang out with the wrong crowd.But what really makes me annoyed is this idea that people can be fixed. You should never try and change someone to make them fit into what you want. You are only going to get hurt. In the same aspect you should never change who you are. There are people you will fit in with and there are people that you will not fit in with. Just because you don't fit in with someone means that you guys just don't click. Its not that there is something wrong with you or them its just that you are not meant to be with someone. We all know who we should hang out with and it is the people you don't need to worry about filtering when your parents show up. We all know what is best for us and we should follow that. 

Saturday-November 15

It's Time-Imagine Dragons

We all go through different stages in life. We have awkward, sassy, rebellious, and confusing parts of our lives. For me it was easier to see my different parts of life because of my hair. No bangs, bangs, long, short, side part, middle part,and you get the picture. But after all of those stages and parts we find out who we are. When I was getting ready to go to college I was informed that this was my time to find who I was. To make a new and solid identity. We all need to do that. It seems scary but it is so much fun. It was fun to go through different moods and tastes in life. So why would we be scared? It just does not make sense. Some people are scared of moving on, growing up, or being rejected. But in reality the right people will come to you. That is when you will discover who you are and how you want to live. It also opens yourself up with so many new opportunities. Live the way you want to live. Because it is time for you to take control and show the world who this amazing person is. ;)

Thursday-November 6

Best Thing I Never Had-Beyonce

Relationships can be really hard. I don't mean only romantic ones but anyones. Especially if they don't work out. But like Beyonce said, you are the best thing they never had. If the relationship does not work out, then the person does not deserve you. I know that that is hard to accept but moving on is the best thing that you can do. If things are meant to last, they will. The people that you have in your life right now are the best people you can have. If it is hard to keep them in your life or they make you unhappy then they should not be there. I am not here to tell you what to do. All I am is just a girl who is typing on a computer. My advice is though that the people who are meant to be in your life are the people that make you happy and excited about each and everyday that you are with them. They are the ones that you do not have to convince to stay because they would not dream about leaving. If you and someone else do not work out then it is their loss!! They do not deserve to have you in their life. You are an amazing person and people would move mountains in order to know you. That is how it should feel because you are special. You are amazing. YOU ARE ENOUGH. Anyone who does not see that does not deserve you and you are the best thing that they will never have. 

Tuesday-November 4

Our Kind Of Love- Lady Antebellum

Lady Antebellum is an on and off kind of band these days. In my opinion, some people may love them all the time. They have their super popular songs and then their songs that like NO ONE in this world listens too. Our Kind Of Love is one of these songs. I listen to it a lot and at first I only listened to it because I thought of it as a love song. Then I realized it can be about friendship. My best friend and are like siblings. I don't know what I would without him. Our friendship is really interesting. We are able to be together all the time and not get sick of each other. However, at the same time we can go months without talking and then pick right back up at some random time. "I love the way that you are up for anything". My best friend and I can go on a walks for hours or go and get ice cream without having too much thought into it. It just works for us. We love each other like siblings. But our love is different. It is a love that has family, friendship, and a unique relationship all wrapped into one. No my best friend is not the bird in the picture above but if you know me then you most likely know who I am talking about. If you don't then maybe you need to get to know me better ;)

It is important to have someone there who you can rely on. A person who will stick by you no matter what. It does not have to be someone who is the same gender as you and if it someone of the opposite sex then you don't have to be interested in them. I think that its better to have someone that you know you will not end up with. Don't spend your time looking for this person. I guarantee that they are already there. <3