No one is the same. Thus, no one can love or care for anyone the same as someone else. Each relationship that you have will be different. For example, my friend at college (I don't use real names) Tom and I are really close. We go to each other when we have a problem and sometimes we sit there in silence for hours. I can't imagine my college experience without him. He and I really care about each other. However, his friendship with our other friend Bob will not be the same as ours. They could do the exact same things but the love and care that is involved will always be different. We all love and care differently and we also love and care about each person differently. 'Like I Would' is the perfect song for this.
In the song it says- "She won't love you like I would". There was this guy that I liked but he did not feel the same way. The girl that he did like is this other girl that is the polar opposite from me. It was really hard to deal and the way that he acted after I found out was not very mature. After talking to him though, I realized that this is how he act and I need to always remember that we have different versions of acting like friends. I can only control myself though. The way that he acts is out of my control and I can only be aware of the differences at times. In another sense however, I will never care for him like that girl does. Maybe at the time, he needs that care and will need mine later on. However, I also need to just be the girl that will always be there for him but remember that its just a friend relationship.
In the song it says- "She won't love you like I would". There was this guy that I liked but he did not feel the same way. The girl that he did like is this other girl that is the polar opposite from me. It was really hard to deal and the way that he acted after I found out was not very mature. After talking to him though, I realized that this is how he act and I need to always remember that we have different versions of acting like friends. I can only control myself though. The way that he acts is out of my control and I can only be aware of the differences at times. In another sense however, I will never care for him like that girl does. Maybe at the time, he needs that care and will need mine later on. However, I also need to just be the girl that will always be there for him but remember that its just a friend relationship.
There is another way of looking at this song. Best Friends. My best friend in college is my other half. I don't know what I would do without her. I only met her maybe a month and a half into the semester and now its almost the end of the semester. She and I have been friends ever since. Because on the title of the song ('Like I Would'), the meaning of my friendship came to life. I care about Violet the way that I would care about myself and she does the same. She and I are almost the same person so the way that we care about each other is the same as we would want for ourselves. This is the friendship that everyone should have. This is a friendship that brings out the best of each other. Confidence, beauty, happiness, intelligence, and so on. It is all brought out by my best friend. I want everyone to have that.
Always remember that each relationship is different because the love and care put into it is different.
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