Wednesday- March 25

Cinderella- Daughtery 

So if you are wondering who the guy behind me is, that is my boyfriend. This is from when I saw him over spring break. My boyfriend is my best friend and I am really glad to have him in my life. There is just something about our relationship that is very different from previous relationships that I have been in. For one, I do not feel like I need to date him. I still feel like the girl that was friends with him last semester. Not a lot has changed. I feel really lucky to have a guy who is so supportive of me. There is one thing that I really love about our relationship and that is the music that we share. There are a couple of songs that he knows I love. One is Cinderella by Daughtery. He plays it to cheer me up or just because. 

I love that song because it explains how every girl should be treated in a relationship. A lot of people forget that 'Honeymoon' Phase in a relationship and so the feeling of love, respect, and just feeling special is lost. The guy should be our prince and we should be their Cinderella. That is how we should feel. There is a line in the song that says "I gotta say, You still take my breath away, That look reminds me of that day, You scratched your number on that yellow post-it note". Those words make me smile everytime that I hear them. It is important to remember that girls, you are worth more than you think. You deserve to be treated like you are Cinderella. Don't underestimate how much you are loved or how much you deserve to feel like you are worth it. :) <3

Friday- March 13

You're Worth It-Cimorelli

"What Defines Us. Our Choices. Our Looks. Our Feelings" "If I Feel Like I'm Nothing, Is It True?" "Somedays, I Look In The Mirror And I Just Want To Cry" "I Think Of All The Mistakes I've Made. All The People I've Hurt." "All The Times I Failed" "Am I A Mistake?" "If I Accomplish My Goals, Will That Make Me Better?" "If I Lose The Weight, Will That Make Me Beautiful?" "If I Changed Everything...Would I Finally Be Worth It?"

If you have never seen the music video by Cimorelli called "You're Worth It" you should go watch it. All the quotes at the top of this are from the video. This is not one of the video that you see the famous pretty girls that are saying you should love yourself. This video is saying I know it is hard and I know that it hurts but you deserve to love yourself. You deserve to feel like you are worth it. You see a new side to these girls and when I watched it, I started looking at how I treated myself. It is hard to love yourself unconditionally. We always look for flaws but it is not worth it. It will not help you. 

Everyone deserves to feel loved, beautiful, and worth it. I am not trying to be preachy or go all religious, but God made us. He made us in his image and we are his sons and daughters. He will always love us and we will always have that love because God is love. And we are all a little piece of God. So we have that love and the love that he additionally has for us. We deserve to be happy with ourselves. There is no definition of beauty. Well that is not true. There is a definition of beauty but it is not what you think. Beauty is loving who you are and being yourself. It is showing the uniqueness that is inside you and owning it! For example, I sing and I love hair and fashion. But my style is really different. I go from professional to comfy to party to boho chic. I call my style Boho-Chic de Moi. That is just who I am. I come up with weird things like that and I own it. No one can get to me by hating on my style, personality, singing, or anything else. They can hate all they want but I don't care. The only opinions that matter are your own of yourself and those who support you. So go be you and own it!

SO BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE WORTH IT. BECAUSE YOU ARE NEVER TOO MUCH AND ARE ALWAYS ENOUGH.